Some level of courage is required when you decide to make a change.  The tendency is to stay in a comfort zone. Self-preparation to meet someone new and actually stepping out to look requires courage. An 100% of this will increase your leverage by miles.

100% allows you to cast your vision of change and growth wider a field than within your immediate circle.

Be strong and courageous is the phrase God used continuously to encourage Joshua in the Bible when he is given the baton of leadership. Courage is the ability to do something that one is afraid to do.

It is an inner super strength we all have to draw on when faced with situations that appear unimaginable for time and change.

You have to take the lead in most decisions of personal change and growth. It is one of the spiritual qualities you have to hone to make changes in life.

It ignores that voice that tries to tell you that you cannot do what you are trying to do.

It engineers you to stay on track in spite of how challenging your road may be, until you can measure the strides made.

It propels you to step forward.

Courage is what you need to make that decision to stop being alone. To explore ways of how to meet and interact with other people to make that connection. It is not easy but the amount of courage you summon will make it less difficult.

The decision for example to go to register on a dating site takes courage. To go to that social to interact and explore the possibilities of companionship potentials takes courage.

To say I want to explore getting some form of help to build my courage muscle also takes courage. Waving to an absolute stranger on a dating site takes courage.

The more we step out of our comfort zones the more we test our courage level and at the same time strengthen it.

We all have some level of courage in us. The parameter of your courage grows gradually until it is 100%. This will give you an unfair advantage for any decision of acting change.

So, draw from the level of courage you have today to change that situation that is twisting you in knots’. e.g. loneliness. Do you need some help with a current relationship that constantly challenges you? Or you are ready to date again but do not know how? We are never too old to start again.

When you do find your soulmate, you will find:

‘Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,

While loving someone deeply gives you courage. ‘By ©anasrose

You find your courage and gain more from the power of two.

Do not accept being alone for years if it is not where you really want to be!!

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Published by yemi278

I loss my husband over 8 years ago. I am a mother of two daughters. I have worked for over 20 years in Mental Health - empowering and giving holistic support to adults with long term Mental health challenges. I have seen through my work human beings have the ability and inner strength to survive any form of loss with the right support from family, friends and community.

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